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Grief Comes When It Wants To
I was listening to a podcast recently, and the woman speaking said something that stopped me in my tracks: “Grief never hits me on the...
Olivia Harrell
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Dear The Ones Who Love us
Dear The Ones Who Love us, Loving someone who is grieving is hard. I know that. I see that. And I need you to know that your love...
Olivia Harrell
Feb 122 min read
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Toxic Protection
Addiction is a heavy burden for any family to bear. It has a way of infiltrating every relationship, every conversation—or, in my...
Olivia Harrell
Jan 233 min read
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Writing Through Grief: Finding Peace in the Holidays
Last year, the holidays arrived like a storm I wasn’t prepared for. My brother’s absence wasn’t just a quiet gap at the dinner table—it...
Olivia Harrell
Dec 9, 20242 min read
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Did he know?
Did he know? That is often a thought that pops up in my mind when I think about Griffin's death. Did he know that baggie had fentanyl in...
Olivia Harrell
Nov 5, 20242 min read
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So here we are on the first anniversary without you..
This month marks one year without my brother, Griffin. There is not one day that has gone by that I haven’t been left wondering what...
Olivia Harrell
Sep 22, 20241 min read
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Dread
Dread. That’s how I felt leading up to our first family vacation without my brother. Deep dread. I did not want to go. I would have...
Olivia Harrell
Aug 17, 20242 min read
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Jealousy
We just returned from a family trip with my husband's side of the family and during the trip I found myself tripped up by an emotional...
Olivia Harrell
Jul 12, 20243 min read
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After the death of our brother
Olivia spoke with her sister, Kendall about her experience after losing their brother. “After the death of someone you love, it seems...
Olivia Harrell & Kendall Welsh
Jun 13, 20242 min read
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Finding the Words in Grief
A few days after my son, James, died of accidental fentanyl poisoning in June 2020, I found myself putting together a makeshift memorial...
Kristin Seeberger
May 22, 20245 min read
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Waves
For the longest time, my adult life has felt like a bit of a roller coaster ride. I became a mom at 26, divorced at 30 and always managed...
Olivia Harrell
May 1, 20243 min read
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Boundaries
Boundaries are a tough concept for someone that struggled with a people pleasing personality as I have for most of my life. I wanted to...
Olivia Harrell
Apr 1, 20242 min read
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In Between
From a very young age I remember that “certain things” were to stay within the family. Period. I could never quite understand why we...
Olivia Harrell
Mar 4, 20244 min read
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SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS
I’m sorry for your loss. It’s a phrase we say when someone we care about has lost someone they care about. It’s a phrase I’ve heard...
Olivia Harrell
Jan 30, 20244 min read
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Thoughts on the AIDS Epidemic as We Approach Overdose Awareness Day
On June 8, 2020, my twenty-year-old son, James, was one of 87,000 deaths that year from an opioid overdose. His autopsy read accidental...
Kristin Seeberger
Aug 29, 20234 min read
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Baltimore Ravens 2022 Community Quarterback
The Baltimore Ravens honor Love in the Trenches’, Kelly Ryan, as a 2022 Community Quarterback award recipient. This award recognizes...
noellechesser
Jan 10, 20231 min read
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I Never Wanted to be a Grief Support Leader, but I am Glad I am
Grief rearranges your address book; Megan Devine says in her book It’s OK That You’re not OK. People I thought would be by my side aren’t...
Kristin Seeberger
Oct 25, 20223 min read
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The Painful Journey of a Parent whose Child Suffers From Substance Use Disorder
It is helpful to break down this journey into stages to remind ourselves that there is movement and forward propulsion in this illness.
Shawn Nocher
Apr 6, 20225 min read
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Trauma and Addiction
"In the same way that addiction is a family disease, so is the trauma it brings." When we spin through our history with our child, we...
Shawn Nocher
Mar 8, 20224 min read
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“Mom,” he said. “I need help. I don’t want to die.” My heart sank to my bowels. “But I don’t want...
Valentine’s Day is a Hallmark holiday to some, but eight years ago it took on a new meaning for me. Love In The Trenches co-founder Shawn...
Shawn Nocher
Feb 13, 20223 min read
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